*nod* so it is, as I thought, a cultural thing that I missed the import of. Thankfully, I've never noticed a partner have this cultural feeling, so it's never been an issue for me.
(Interestingly, Colin said 'I don't think it's as wide as US culture' when I was suggesting that that might be the difference... I also suggested 'notme' culture.)
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Date: 2011-01-24 08:36 am (UTC)(Interestingly, Colin said 'I don't think it's as wide as US culture' when I was suggesting that that might be the difference... I also suggested 'notme' culture.)