ghoti_mhic_uait: (Andrew Lincoln)
ghoti_mhic_uait ([personal profile] ghoti_mhic_uait) wrote2016-03-01 05:14 pm

Facebook memes

There's a Facebook meme going around '27 ways to love me'. I think it's probably great for whoever made the thing, but it seems to be designed to be universal, or at least for romantic/sexual relationships, let's ignore all the rest of love, and has lots of arty shots of m/f couples being stereotypicla, and contains lines like 'hold me when I'm mad' and 'play with my hair'.

So, it seems to me that maybe this is one where there should be blank squares.

1. Don't play with my hair
2. Don't touch me when I'm stressed
3. In fact, negotiate touching before you do it
4. No eye contact
5. I'm serious stop looking at my face
6. er, fuck it, nothing works for everyone. So never mind.
liv: oil painting of seated nude with her back to the viewer (body)

[personal profile] liv 2016-03-01 07:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Me, very much, it's one of my favourite ways to be physically intimate. But I hate lots of the other things on that FB meme, so I definitely wouldn't assume my feelings are universal.

[identity profile] venta.livejournal.com 2016-03-01 07:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Fair enough! I didn't mean to mock :)

[identity profile] ghoti.livejournal.com 2016-03-01 09:00 pm (UTC)(link)
And I love playing with your hair so it all works out.