There's a young lady I wish to take on a date

[ghoti_mhic_uait]

How do I do that? I mean, once she's agreed, what do you *do* on a first date?

Comments

[kesstrel.livejournal.com]

I don't know.

When you've figured it out could you let me know?

[firinel.livejournal.com]

depends on what both fo you like to do.
I can think of things I'd like to do:
have a picinic lunch in a park? poke around in second-hand stores and second-hand bookstores together? go see a movie? go to an art musuem? go to The Calling together?

[ghoti.livejournal.com]

See, the problem comes that for me, some of those are definitely non-date activities. Some of them are worth exploring, though; thankyou!

[valkyriekaren.livejournal.com]

first dates - I've always liked going for coffee somewhere intimate but non-corporate like Clowns or Indigos.

[wildeabandon.livejournal.com]

I'm with Karen on this, although if, like me, you often use this as a non-date activity as well, mkae sure that they know it is a date :)

Possibly following it with a cinema/theatre trip might be a plan?

[ghoti.livejournal.com]

That's a very good idea. Mail sent....

Cheers, both.

[sheepthief.livejournal.com]

Hmmm, depends what you want out of the date. I'd not consider a film or the theatre as it means that you can't chat for a large chunk of the date. On the other hand you don't want a face to face scenario in case of embarassing silences. So, some sort of activity that you might both enjoy such as a trip to a gallery or castle or something?

I don't know - I guess it's different for blokes anyway as there's the safety aspect to consider in that case.

[ghoti.livejournal.com]

Oooh, sensible things. And there are always zoos, zoos are good, and I'd forgotten that.

Thankyou!

[sheepthief.livejournal.com]

Hmmm. That could be a bit political - a lot of people are against zoos. The last one I went to (Chester I think it was) seemed pretty dire, despite them being at pains to point out that they were working for conservation of species.

[ghoti.livejournal.com]

Oooh, sensible things. And there are always zoos, zoos are good, and I'd forgotten that.

Thankyou!

[zotz]

Shag?

HTH,

G.

[ghoti.livejournal.com]

Fancy a date?

[zotz]

Not just at the moment, thanks - I ate a whole box of them last night, and it's a long way from my desk to the toilet.